From:	Nightfox <DJWA@******.UCC.NAU.EDU>
Subject:	Re: Another marriage
Date:	Wed, 11 May 1994 20:52:50 -0700

>>>>>[Well first of all, congradulations on your engagement. After a year
of
marriage, I can honestly say that it is worth it. Make sure though, that you
know what you are getting into, if you do, you should not have many problems.
Understanding and a want to learn are very important in love and marriage. Each
of you will change as the years go on, don't expect it not to happen, age and
experience change us all, so will being with your spouse so often. Accept that
change will come, and learn what has changed and come to understand it. If you
do your love will stay and grow, if you do not, you will find yourself
wondering what happened to the person your loved. Love has to change and
transform if it is to grow and flourish.


It is nice to see that others are begining to understand that Shadowrunning
should not get in the way of commitment. Yes, it can put a strain on any
relationship, and your lover or spouse might die. I know how this feels, I
believed that I had lost CRUSH and most of me died then. It is worth every
might though. As a rather old group name Queen used to sing


"One year of Love, is better than a lifetime alone."


It is true, love will make you grow in ways you never dreamed, and it will
strengthen you and give you many reasons to keep on going in life.


Now if some others, who will remain unmentioned, would get the hint and go an
get hitched. You know who you are.]<<<<<
--Spirit <of the matrix>